For one so small,you seem so strong My arms will hold you keep you safe and warm This bond between us can’t be broken I will be here don’t you cry----Phil Collins
9/25/2005
The Birthday Weekend
9/23/2005
9/22/2005
Pizza in Fattyville
9/20/2005
sick as ....
9/18/2005
esplanade by night
9/17/2005
Happy Birthday !!
Last night, i went to a great old friends birthday. Uncle Jerry and it was great we were talking about old times as we tend to do when we gather, ghost stories, memories from years ago you know the stuff. I have known Uncle Jerry and A.Bessie since I was 16 that is exactly 16yrs ago too. We met in the church and I was told that he was to be in charge of the sacristy and that we would have to work closely with him man oh man was I unhappy the fella never smiled and he seemed so strict but as they say you cant judge a book by its cover and I totally misjudged him. As friendships go this couple are it, they have been there for every batch of altar boys since day one, always there to keep an eye out for us and feed us..man do they feed us. Over the past 16yrs there have been periods where would not see each other for months but at the end of our sabbatical from each other it would always seem like time hadn’t passed and we were talking just yesterday. At "events" in my life they have always been there, when I was in the army and had my first parents visiting day aside from my family, there were these two U.Jerry and A.Bessie, the morning my dad passed away they were at my house minutes after the ambulance arrived and at my wedding Uncle Jerry helped make the mass even more beautiful by his efforts in the sacristy. As you know Family and friends are the most important t thing to me, and these guys are family no doubt about it. Anyway here’s to a very
HAPPY BIRTHDAY UNCLE JERRY
and the next time your family wants to me up for a drink tell me so I can hide!!!!lol
Below are the folks who there last night if I left you out ..sorry.
In search of definition
"Men see things differently at different points in their lives". Say it out loud...think about it, makes sense doesnt it.
In my own existence i realise that the statement is true, when i was a child i belived that my father was the greatest in the world as i entered my teen and early adulthood i began to think differently i began to question and doubt things and thought well maybe this guy aint so perfect after all, last sunday was his birthday and though he celebrates in heaven he still remains strongly in my mind. I sat down to try and think "who was my father" to many people he was many different things, to his friends he was the best friend a man could have, if he had 2$ and you needed it he would go hungry and give you the money. He felt the need for everyone to have a good time and be happy, he wanted the best for his children and all his life he worked for that goal, he wanted to be a better husband and he and my mother worked hard for that too. A perfect marriage? there is no such thing from the outside looking in, but from their perspective it was perfect. Perfect father? like the movie said at different times men see things differently and these days i realize that he was the perfect father for me, he did the best he could with what he had and if one day i have children and they are able to say that of me how proud i would be.
What did my father teach me? or Should i say what did my father try to teach me cause i dont learn too well....l he always said "IF your going to do something do it well and dont do it halfway" He always said" if when you die you have had two good friends then count yourself lucky cause good friends are hard to find" He taught me from a young age to be excited by nature and wildlife, he taught me that while there is a time to be serious there is also a time to play and have fun(seems thats my focus all the time), he taught me that having a sense of humor is an important thing his friends always said he was a funny guy. My brother got all the good traits, drive, determination the ability to keep at it.knowing right from wrong .....i got a sense of humor(albeit a rather warped one) actually i dont think i didnt get any of those things its just that i dont use them..very much anyway. The most important lesson i feel he gave me is this "family and friends"(doesnt need anymore explaining does it)i wish i ws better at these two things more than anything in the world.
I know its a draggy an odd post but what the heck.
So my wish for all of you this late night or rather early morning is this, when you awake may your thoughts be of "family and friends"
9/14/2005
Flock of SHIH TZU
Dinner was a lovely white sauce pasta at casa machado, we went to see the new puppy! unfortunately because of the as yet not permantly named dog Zorro showed no interest in playing with his sister PEPPER..poor thing she looked so sad. Anyhow the new pup has adjusted quite well to her surroundings and Zorro has taken a keen interest her.
At work i spent my day running around sorting out stuff that i didnt doo last week cause of the mid autum festival, also had to destroy a bunch of bees...didnt like doing it but i had no choice they were a declared as dangerous by my "expert" boss. will update soon!
9/13/2005
this that and..........................
Was that the end of the day nope cause we went home had a shower then went to Doo's place to watch KIMI win a lovely f1 race. thus my weekend was over.....now its back to work!
ps if you notice my may typos..keep it to yourself its a secret ssssssssshhhhhhhhhhh
no pics cause i am still tired..soon..soon.
9/08/2005
Midweek Guest
Its so quick that we have reached the middle of the week, worked until 8 yesterday and went home to a mini feast...macaroni pie...chicken wings...cutlets...salad and some great company. Glen, Fiona (aka tammy tay) Kyle,Malorie,Megan,Kristen and Mushi (cute little bugger) from Glens troop and Corey, Niki, Shauna from Rogers clan. This bunch must be the best behaved group of children i have ever met not so much Niki who was badly behaved (kidding lah nenek) the younger ones played board games n hide and seek,while we discussed matters of state...namly ghost stories..horror movies and other such important details. i enjoyed myself and i hope that they did too. next time i will take half day off to prepare for them. TLOML did a fine job even though she finished late and had to rush. next time we get some wine, cheese..and do it on a weekend so everyone can have a drink! i will post pics of everyone when i get home so please re-read this post again tom!
Sorry bout your pic Glen its the only one i had!!
9/05/2005
after hours
Where does it all go?
Tuesday was dinner at my place with aaron, sherwin, mama lucy and my old friend Fr.Iggy. The occasion was a "fair thee well" type of thing as he was or has already left for Chicago for 2 years of study! Christmas just wont be the same anymore well not for two years at least. Friday had dinner at Ems place, with the clan known as "the outbacks" very enjoyable mean and company as always, the entertainment was excellent! Sunday lunch was at the MOO-DOO mansion. I really cant recall what else i did last week!!! where did it all go!!!